Post by admin on Aug 28, 2007 0:59:49 GMT -5
HOW-TO: The Details
Lubricant:
The first key to having successful anal sex is lubricant. Too much lube is never
enough...I provide a suitable waterbased one for you to put on your manhood just
before you enter my butt.
Patience:
The second key to great anal sex is patience. You cannot slick on some lubricant
and suddenly expect to be ramming things into your partner's ass. There are two
muscles that control the 'door' to your partners bottom, so to speak. The outer
muscle can be controlled voluntarily. Whether your partner is relaxed or not,
they should be able to will this muscle to relax. The second muscle however, is
controlled by reflex. It has a mind of its own. If your partner is not relaxed,
this muscle is NOT going to open up for anything. This is where patience comes
in.
Getting started:
Anal sex is something that you have to work up to. Start by laying with your
partner and simply exploring. Use some lubricant and use a finger to simply
caress their anus. After awhile, slide your finger very SLOWLY inside. Doing
this slowly is the key, and listen to your partner if they tell you to stop. If
they do, stop what you are doing and wait (don't suddenly pull out!). If they I
tell you to pull out, do so slowly, and maybe wait awhile before trying again. .
Bring on the thingy:
After you have worked for some time together with fingers , you will be ready to
move onto actually using a real thingy. (yay!) When you move up to using your
thingy, remember to take things very slowly still. Apply a LOT of lube. Maybe
use your fingers to get into the swing of things, . When you are going to
actually use your thingy, take it slow. With all the lubricant, the thingy will
tend to "pop" right in there, gently insert your helmet and slowly push the
lenght of your manhood into me.......slowly does it and as you feel me begin to
move back and forward then you can increase the pressure.........
Remember:
An important thing to remember about the insides of a persons' ass is that it is
not a straight tunnel. There are bends and curves, and you have to be gentle so
that you do not bang into a 'wall'. Taking it slow and gentle is the best way to
guarentee a pain free experience.
Success at last:
And now, if all things have gone well, you have had a successful experience with
anal sex!!! At the same time, it must be mentioned that some people might
discover that they simply don't like it. At least you tried something new. If
you discover that you do like it, suddenly you have a whole new world to
explore.