what is phone sex?

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What is Phone Sex?

Well phone sex is the verbal sexual stimulation between two people over the telephone. The beauty of phone sex is that there are no rules, apart from chatting about any topic that includes illegal activities.

Phone sex can be enjoyed by anyone no matter what you sexual preference or gender and it doesn�t matter how long you have known the other person or whether you have actually met the person your having phone sex with.

There is no age limit with phone sex as long as you are over the legal age of 16 years for private phone sex and over 18 years for chat line phone sex. Mature people enjoy phone sex just as much as younger people and in fact more mature people have a wealth of experience to use during their phone sex conversations which can make it all the better.

Phone sex is a great way of finding out what the other person likes sexually as it can be intimidating and embarrassing for some people to confess what their sexual desires, fantasies and needs are face to face. Also for those people who are shy it gives them the choice of putting the telephone down and ending the conversation when ever they want thus giving them some control.

There are many people out there who have desires and fantasies but who feel embarrassed or ashamed to divulge their needs to their partners, so phone sex with a friend or with a chat line operated is a why of fulfilling their need without cheating. Such as men and women who like to be Dominated or may like water sports, everyone has some kind of fetish, unfortunately not all partners are open minded or compassionate to their partners needs.

Phone sex between two people is sharing a fantasy of what they would like to do sexually to each other and to themselves. It is sharing a sexual chemistry and enhancing that chemistry with the use of their voices and sex toys and imagination.

The aim of having a phone sex conversation is to achieve a joint orgasm, ideally at the same time; this isn�t always possible however it isn�t the end of the world if one person achieves orgasm before the other as long as the two people enjoy themselves. Sex toys are often used during phone sex to achieve the desired effect and to enhance the conversation and the best sex toys to use are the ones that make a noise. It is a very big turn on for the other person if they can hear what you are describing to them.

There are two types of phone sex; the first is private phone sex between two people chatting on their private telephone lines. Then there are phone sex chat lines where men and women can call a chat line service, select a chat line operator and have a phone sex conversation or their choice.

The benefit or using a phone sex chat line is that the operators will not judge you or make you feel embarrassed about your desires, fantasies and needs. The phone sex operators are professional enough to realise that everyone is different and they are just as genuine as you. Also you get to have a wide variety of people to have phone sex with from more mature ladies to Dominatrix mistress to girls who like sexual activaties such as anal sex and water sports.

All of the phone sex operators have fetishes too from common ones such as nice bums and a hairy chest too dogging and lesbian sex.

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Q- Are these girls/ladies for real?

A- The majority the girls and ladies that work on a chat line are for real and they are genuine girls and ladies doing live conversation. There are only a small percentage of companies that use pre recorded messages.

Q- Do chat line girls work from a call centre?

A- Very few chat line companies nowadays have girls in a call centre due to high outgoings i.e.: full time staff wages, office rent, national insurance and tax etc. It is in any chat line�s best interest to have as many home workers as possible. The majority of chat line women are also self employed to keep the cost�s down.

Q- Do girls really work from home?

A- Yes they do work from home as it is cheaper for the chat line companies and it is more convenient for the girls/ladies. Most of the girls who work on chat line are very genuine normal girls. For some girls it is the only type of work that fits around their families as it is normally flexible hours and the working mum�s do not have to pay out money for child care.

Q- Where at home do these girls work?

A- Some may have an office or study at home, some like to chat while they are in or on their beds, other my be laying on their sofa�s. All these girls /ladies work where they feel more relaxed and at ease.

Q- Do the girls look like they do in the adverts?

A- That varies from company to company, some use pictures of models and others use pictures given to them to use by the chat line girls. Some girls do have professional pictures taken of them selves and others use pictures they have done themselves. So unfortunately unless you ask them you will never know.

Q- Are they allowed to chat about anything?

A- No they can�t, there are certain topics which are not allowed to be discussed by the chat line girls and they are: - illegal sexual activities, their personal contact details and classified company information or numbers. If a chat line girl was caught doing any of these things she would be instantly dismissed. All live calls are recorded and regulated by I.C.S.T.I.S.

Q- Do they actually do the things they say they are doing?

A- Some girls do exactly what they are telling the callers while they chat and others do not. Although that doesn�t mean that they are not enjoying the conversation. Any girls who do the job and don�t enjoy it will never get as many call as someone who does, this is because caller can sense it through the girls voice even though they don�t realize it.

Q- Are these girls professional?

A- Some of the girls/ladies are very professional in how they chat, wanting the caller to have a good time, trying to build a good rapport with callers. Other girls/ladies do the job purely for fun because they enjoy chatting and love sexual fun and some do the job to make new friends and have some company. Many single mum�s do the job for a social reason especially if they don�t get to go out very often.

Q- If they are married or with a partner don�t their husbands or boyfriends mind?

Some girls who work in an office may not tell their partners/husbands what they do, however nearly all home working girls do tell their partners/husbands. A lot of their partners feel slightly threatened at first when they girlfriends or wives start the job, however once they know more about it they are more relaxed about it, especially knowing the girls are not allowed to give out personal details.

Some husbands and partners actually find it a turn on knowing that another man is lusting after their woman, making them realize and remember that they are still all sex kittens. Also doing the job gives the girls more sexual confidence as well. Knowing that you can turn another person on so much that they orgasm is enough to boost any ones confidence man or woman.

Q- Are these girls the age they say they are?

A- Most of the girls/ladies who work on the chat lines are the age they say they are, as most chat lines have lines for different age groups i.e.: just legal teens and mature ladies etc so nowadays there is more variety for the caller. You will however have to take their word for it as some girls are older than they sound and visa versa.

Q- Are the girls trained to talk dirty?

A- Most companies train the girls on how to use the line, what they can�t say or chat about and the rules and regulations laid down by I.C.S.T.I.S and how they should react to problem caller (abusive etc). They are not normally trained in how to chat as this is not normally something you can teach, flirting and being friendly come naturally to these girls which is why they are employed in the first place.

Q- How do the chat lines work?

A- Most chat line companies advertise numbers that you can call for different types of chat i.e.: hungry housewives or dogging. You call the number and you hear options such as select live chat or cyber chat (recorded messages sent to and from you and the chat line girl). Then you may hear a selection of voice introductions of girls/ladies who are available to chat. Next you pick a girl to chat with and the call is then directed to her home where she answers.

There are also companies who do a call back service. However, How To Have Phone Sex guide does not offer this type of service. You call the number and pick a girl to chat to, their computer system then calls you but you still get charged for the call while you chat.

Q- Can the girls pick who they want to chat with?

A- Different chat line companies have varied rules on this, however well managed companies will give the chat line girl the option of transferring the caller back to the main menu to pick some one else, or will allow the girls to terminate any caller who she does wish to speak too.

Q- Are they allowed to meet callers?

A- No they are not to meet any callers and they are also not permitted to give the caller the impression that there is a chance of meeting them. Chat lines are a service for a variety of chat, not a dating service.

Q- Can they accept telephone numbers or e-mail address from callers?

A- The chat line girls/ladies are not permitted to accept numbers or e-mail address under any circumstances and will be dismissed if they do so. Live calls are recorded.

Q- Are they as good at sex as they seem on the phone?

A- We can only imagine that these girls are as good as they seem on the chat lines. Any girl who can get a man hard and bring him to orgasm must know what she is doing. Nearly all chat line girls use their personal experience when chatting to a caller. Although the girls do learn from the callers i.e.: new sexual positions, different fetishes etc.

Q- Do these girls enjoy their job?

A- Nearly all the chat line girls/ladies enjoy their job, they get to chat to lots of different people (male and female callers) have friendly, fun or sexual conversation. A lot of girls/ladies have regular callers who they love to catch up with and who they have become friends with. Some of the girls really enjoy the sexual chat and have just as much fun as the caller they are chatting with.

Q- Do the girls get really turned on or do they fake it?

A- A lot of the girls may genuinely get turned on during a sexual chat; however that would depend on the individual caller. Some girls enjoy the chat but may not actually get turned on by it. You can probably tell by the tone of their voices as to how turned on they are. However these are girls we are talking about, but don�t worry, if you can�t tell, neither can their husbands or partners.

Q- Is it true that the girls are all old women chatting to men while they do their knitting or their ironing?

A- We are sorry to say that some do. The steam from the iron or the clatter from their knitting needles way gives the game away. However the great majority of the chat line girls don�t do anything else when chatting to a caller unless they are joining in the sexual fun.

Q- Do they use props with chatting?

A- A lot of girls do use props especially when talking to a caller who has a fantasy about being whipped for example as it makes the fantasy more real for the caller. Other girls may use vibrators and other sex toys for the sound they make or to actually use them for sexual enjoyment during the call.

Q- Why do they do work on a chat line?

Ladies/girls work on a chat line for many different reasons. Some need extra money to cover bills and buy food others do the job so they can save money for holidays, property deposits and cars. Some ladies/girls do the job purely for fun as a social tool to make friends, for sexual satisfaction or heighten their sex life.

Q- Do they actually orgasm or is it pretend?

A- Some girls do actually orgasm during a phone sex conversation however there are girls that do fake orgasm when necessary. There is no way of a caller knowing as the majority of girls/women can fool their partners or husbands and it is something that most woman/girls are very good at faking.

Q- Do these girls earn good money?

In most cases these ladies/girls do earn very good money which makes up for working unsociable hours their rates can vary from anything between 10p per minute upwards. Most decent chat line companies will pay their staff between 18p-21p per minute. The majority of chat line girls/woman are self employed and some companies do offer the girls higher rates of pay for working through the night (graveyard shift).

Q- Are they allowed to give out personal information about them selves?

Yes the girls/women are permitted to give out information about themselves as long as it does not include where they live, where they work or give out any personal contact details or their full name.

Q-Are they allowed to give out their telephone number or e-mail address?

No they are not permitted to give out any personal contact details what so ever live calls are recorded and if a person is caught giving out personal details they will be dismissed from the company they work for.

Q- Do they use sex toys while they are chatting?

A- Some girl do use sex toys to pleasure themselves during a sexual conversation with a caller, others merely use them as a prop to give the caller the impression that they are. Either ay the caller can not hear the difference and enjoys that chat.

Q- What is that I.C.S.T.I.S I hear about when s i.e. ho I call a chat line?

A- I.C.S.T.I.S (Independent committee for the supervision of standards of telephone information services) is a non-profitable and completely independent organization which is funded by the industry. They are responsible for the creation and review of standards relating to the content and the promotion of premium rate services advertised in the UK through their code of practice. They also investigate public complaints as well as monitoring the services and they recommend measures to achieve compliance with the code of practice. They publish information relating to its work.

Q- What sort of girls work on a chat line?

A- There is not just one type of girl /lady who works on a chat line. All sorts of women do the job form vicars wives who want to have some forbidden fun to girls who know what they want. The majority of the women who do the job are just very nice girls trying to earn a living or just earning extra money for different reasons.

Q- What age are the girls/ladies usually?

A- The girls/ladies all vary in age which is good new for the callers as they have more choice. The ages of these women range from 18 up to 71 and they are all in demand. The older women are very sort after as they are more sexually experienced and it comes across in their chat.

Q- Do they work at set hours?

A- This varies from company to company, some companies do a set shift Rota for their girls and other let the calls work flexible hours when they can as long as they do a minimum of hours. However if this is the case the girls can work as many hours as they like.

Q- What is the usual age of chat line girls?
A- There really is no usual age of the chat line girls/ladies As we have said there are many types of chat lines out their, from Domination and fetish (rubber, leather, feet etc) so as you can imagine there are suitable ladies/girls to suit any caller.

Q- Are the chat line girls slags or slappers?

A- A very small percentage of girls would be possibly called either of those names, however we do not think of these girls in that way. Equality depicts that women should be able to have a much sexual fun as guys. There are however girls out their on a chat line who are a dirty and filthier than most

Q- Is there any way I can find out the telephone number of a chat line girl?

A- There is absolutely no way of finding out a chat lines girl/ladies telephone number due to the fact that the computer systems that re-directs the calls to the girl why is working.

Q- Are the girls allowed to cut off a caller?

A- Yes most chat line girls are allowed to cut off callers who are being offence or abusive or who are trying to chat about something forbidden on the line. Also the mums who work on a chat line might have to quickly come off the line if their children wake up.

Q- When are the busiest times for the chat line girls?

A- With just about all chat lines their busiest times are on a fir day, Saturday and Sunday night when lots of men have been on a night out and have come home horny and wanting some fun. Also there are men who have been left at home while there girl friends or wives have gone out and they are at home feeling horny.

Q- Do the girls on these chat lines think that men who call are perverts?

A- Just about all chat line girls don�t think that their callers are perverts; they know that these men are average guys wanting some fun.

There are an awful lot of men out their with different fetishes ranging from water sports to cross dressing, however many of them share the same interest so the chat lines girls/ladies are perfectly aware that every one man or woman has a fetish or something that turns them on more than anything else.

Q- Do many men call chat lines for just friendly chat which is non sexual?

A- Yes, many men call the chat lines for non sexual chat. Some just want some company because they have parted with their girlfriend or wife. Others just want to hear a friendly chat or to ask some advice from a nice woman about their partner. What ever you want to chat about, the numbers on our How To Have Phone Sex site have many ladies that are willing to put you at ease, whether that be talking dam right dirty or a friend
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History of Phone SexAs soon as telephones were freely available to the general public phone sex began, although in the early days of telephone use no one would admit to it as sex was very much a taboo subject. However as the years went by into the 1960�s people became slightly more open minded about sex and their own sexuality, although it was not usually talked about in the open.

Phone sex began to increase though at a steady rate with people starting to travel more and the increased numbers of men and women joining the armed forces. People would call their loved ones while travelling and because they missed and longed for each other their conversation would lead to sex.

In the 1960�s to the 1970�s phone sex was usually between couples, married or not and because sex was becoming less of a taboo it was increasing rapidly. More and more couples were staring to enjoy having phone sex fun and the average ages of those people were starting to broaden as well.

Towards the end of the 70�s small phone sex services started to appear providing phone sex chat to those people who were wanting some no strings sexual fun with women who were very women minded and who would talk about sexual activities that were still quite taboo. With the introduction of page three girls in newspapers and adult magazines being introduced such as Playboy and Hustler these phone sex services now had scope for media advertising.
This was when the phone sex business really took off and started to boom, offering phone sex to all over 18 years old. However some of these phone sex companies were very unprofessional and were scrupulously mistreating or misleading their callers and taking advantage.
Because of this a governing body called I.C.S.T.I.S was formed and was funded by the industry to regulate all the phone sex companies and their services. They laid down regulations for all companies to follow and fines for those companies who ignored the new rulings.
With I.C.S.T.I.S monitoring the growing businesses it began to boom even more. More and more women became phone sex operators to keep up with the increase in callers. People as a whole were becoming very relaxed about sex and sex before marriage was no longer so shocking.

As the 1990�s came people around the world were using their phones even more and the internet really took off. This not only made it easier for people around the world to communicate but also the phone sex services had a new place to advertise. Giving people with more unusual fetishes a place to find a service which supplied services for their needs.

Phone sex now at this day and age is the norm for most couples, being seen as another way of exploring each other when ever apart. Also with the steady increase in divorce and more people staying single for longer the need for such services are still increasing. The steady monitoring from I.C.S.T.I.S is now insuring that the phone sex companies are run well and professional giving excellent service to their callers and at reasonable prices.

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Phone Sex WorldwideDue to the fact that all developed countries have telephones, the phone sex business has become a global phenomenon. Men and women world wide enjoy phone sex fun with their loved ones or people they might meet and have a sexual attraction with and phone sex operators.

Lets face it sex is no longer a taboo topic of conversation which is great because the more people talk about it, the more they learn from each other. There has been a greater increase in people having to travel around the world for their jobs as well, so more couples are having phone sex fun because of spending so much time apart. Also because of the high increase in divorce around the world there are more and more newly single people who are in need of some sexual release.

Not all women and men are relaxed or confident about having a phone sex conversation. It is something that does not come naturally to all, however there are many women and men who are extremely good at phone sex chat and they usually find it benefits any relationship they are in.

There isn�t just one type of person who enjoys phone sex; it can be enjoyed by all adults, from straight men and women too gay and lesbian too. Phone sex is a wonderful way of exploring another person sexually and because there is no physical contact people can explore their desires with out any embarrassment or discomfort.

The internet has played a huge part in the increase of people par taking in phone sex; this is because people around the world can communicate so easily and freely nowadays. Men and women get to interact with each other on the net using dating sites and fetish forums and they can communicate with the opposite or same sex no matter what the distance is between them.

Once people get to know each other on the World Wide Web the next stage for most long distance relationships is phone sex. For those who are unable to travel so freely, this is a massive benefit to their sexual relationship, aiding their sexual chemistry to blossom. By the time that they do get to meet, they already know what each other like.

Being able to have phone sex fun with someone from any part of the world gives people more variety and variety is very much the spice of life. Both men and women like to chat and have phone sex with people from different countries and cultures. Also because the bigger phone sex companies are so much better these days the callers who use this type of services can call phone sex operators any where in the world.

The phone sex world is the callers oyster for men and women to use and have fun with and with the cost of global calls going down all the time, it is opening up to more people every day.